June 29, 2005
If the shoe don’t fit
Initially i wanted to post this as a comment on a friend’s blog. since she turned off the comments option, guess i’ll just put my advice here. Since she is my friend and i respect her privacy, i won’t mention names.
I just admire how girls would stay as long as possible in a relationship even it’s going no where but down to the abyss. I’m not saying that you should dump your companion over some arguement, but having to blog "that bastard made me cry again" or "why did i ever trust him" or "loving him can be so painful" for a whole week (or even more, since i didn’t keep track) can only mean one thing. he ain’t sincere.
5 years is a long time to be in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. and it don’t take more than 1 year for a guy to show his true color (a little longer if he’s an actor). In many occation have i came accross broken relationship from over-extended courting period and the main culprit is taking things for granted.
before i start to sound like a feminist, i’ll pen down (in my case, finger off)
